Giving Back

This is the time of year when I always share a family story…

When I was 12-years-old, my great-grandfather gave me Avon face powder for a holiday gift. Needless to say, I was disappointed by this gift. Instead of lecturing me about being ungrateful, or exchanging the powder for a different gift, my mother agreed that this was not a great gift for a girl my age. She suggested that perhaps there was a woman somewhere, that might not be getting gifts for the holidays, who would appreciate this gift.

This was before the internet, Giving Trees, etc., and it took many phone calls for my mother to find an agency that was collecting gifts for needy families. We ended up “adopting” a family for the holidays. Our whole family picked out gifts for this family. This was a tradition we continued throughout my childhood, and a tradition I continued with my own children, and now my grandchildren.

With the internet, Toys for Tots, Giving Trees… There are so many ways for children to become authentically engaged in the spirit of the holidays. Children can be given examples of ways to make the holidays special for others, can choose to engage in these activities/organizations, or come up with new authentic ideas.

It doesn’t need to cost a lot, or anything, to make someone else happy during the holidays. A handmade card, delivered to someone you know, or don’t know, can make a difference to someone else during the holiday season. And what a great lesson for your students to learn.

Happy December! Happy Authentic Teaching!

Authentic Project Ideas – Valentine’s Day

The holiday season has barely ended, and now we approach Valentine’s Day. (I was actually in a store right before Christmas, and they already had the Valentine’s displays out.) This can be another hard/lonely holiday for many people. What a great time to work on an authentic project for others.

If Valentine’s Day is not celebrated where you live, what similar holidays are? Actually, this is a great research idea, how/where is Valentine’s Day celebrated around the world? What ideas can we use from other countries for ideas for our project?

Even young children can brainstorm ideas for how to remember others on Valentine’s Day. Start with an age appropriate introduction to the holiday, and go from there! Research/Brainstorm/Vote/Implement! Authentic!

Holiday Blues

This is the time of year when evidence of the holidays is everywhere. You can’t turn a corner without seeing something holiday related. The television is in full holiday mode with commercials, specials, movies…about the magic of the holiday season.

I have written a great deal about giving to others during the holiday season. However, we also need to remember to take care of ourselves. And, in my humble opinion, the two are connected. If you are alone, or lonely, or the holidays aren’t giving you the holiday glow – try doing something for someone else. You will be surprised how good this makes you feel. Dropping off a simple, inexpensive, or homemade gift will so cheer up someone else, and in return, cheer up yourself!

And don’t forget to show children how important it is to think of others, and how good it will make them feel!

Happy Holidays!

Spreading Joy – Giving Back

This is my favorite time of the year! I love all of the decorations, celebrations, giving, sharing…

This is also the season where I always share a family story…

When I was 12-years-old, my great-grandfather gave me Avon face powder for a holiday gift. Needless to say, I was disappointed by this gift. Instead of lecturing me about being ungrateful, or exchanging the powder for a different gift, my mother agreed that this was not a great gift for a girl my age. She suggested that perhaps there was a woman somewhere, that might not be getting gifts for the holidays, who would appreciate this gift.

This was before the internet, Giving Trees, etc., and it took many phone calls for my mother to find an agency that was collecting gifts for needy families. We ended up “adopting” a family for the holidays. Our whole family picked out gifts for this family. This was a tradition we continued throughout my childhood, and a tradition I continued with my own children, and now my grandchildren.

With the internet, Toys for Tots, Giving Trees… There are so many ways for children to become authentically engaged in the spirit of the holidays. Children can be given examples of ways to make the holidays special for others, can choose to engage in these activities/organizations, or come up with new authentic ideas.

Happy December! Happy Authentic Teaching!

Tis the Season to Give Back

From the book Tex the Explorer and The Jared Box Project

Illustration by Eyen Johnson

As many of you know, I am passionate about two things, authentic teaching, and The Jared Box Project. These two things work together perfectly, when you are authentically teaching about giving. It is so important all year, but especially this time of year, to remember to give back.

Jared McMullen was diagnosed with an incurable brainstem tumor in 1999. He carried a backpack full of toys and games to all appointments and questioned why the other children didn’t bring toys to their exam rooms. Jared shared his toys and invited the other children to join him in a game of UNO. At just 5 years old, he demonstrated faith, wisdom and compassion for others.

Jared’s classmates sought to honor his memory and created boxes filled with toys for the patients at their local hospital. What was intended as a one-time project has grown into a nonprofit that reaches into the hearts of children and their families across all 50 US States, and also internationally.

I did a presentation last year at a special education school. These children had a great deal on their plate, but all engaged and enjoyed making Jared Boxes. They already earned credit at their school store (for task completion and behavior), and during the Jared Box Project (the name of the project and a project!) they used their credit to buy items for the Jared Box that they were going to make. The students were all engaged, proud, learning, and eager to share their finished boxes.

For more information about The Jared Box Project visit TheJaredBox.org

Tex the Explorer and The Jared Box Project

We have officially finished the award season for Tex the Explorer and The Jared Box Project. Eyen and I have been overwhelmed with the awards this book has earned.

We are so honored that we were asked to help tell Jared’s story, and to help spread the word about The Jared Box Project. The material we were given to work with was award winning.

2023 Mom’s Choice Awards® Silver Recipient

2023 indieBRAG® Medallion Winner

2023 Royal Dragonfly Book Awards Winner

2023 Chanticleer International Book Awards Semi-Finalist

2023 Story Monsters Approved®

2024 Book Excellence Award Finalist

2024 Next Generation Indie Book Awards Finalist

2024 Eric Hoffer Award Nominated

2024 Purple Dragonfly Book Awards Winner

2024 Global Ebook Awards Gold and Silver Medals

2024 International Impact Book Awards Winner

2024 The BookFest® Book Awards Second Place

2024 Best Book Awards Finalist

Happy Fourth – Kindness Counts!

As the United States celebrates its 248th birthday, I think it might be a great time to look at where we are as a country, and what is going on in the world. No, I don’t intend to get into this in this blog. Everyone has their own views, insights, and feelings about our country/world today. But, I think we all can agree that right now, and always, the world could use a little kindness.

It is so important to teach children (and young adults) the importance of doing something for others. Nothing makes me feel better than helping others. (This is one of the major reasons I write my blog, maybe I can help an educator or a parent in some small way.)

So, in America, as we celebrate our birthday in a few days, what is one small gesture we can do to make a difference for someone else? Have your students/campers/children make Happy Birthday America cards for folks in a retirement home. Have them call someone who might not get many calls to wish them a Happy Fourth. Make cupcakes or cookies for someone. Invite someone to a picnic, family gathering, fireworks viewing…

If you are not in America, what holiday is coming up in your country that you can include others. Teach children that every kind gesture counts!

Tex the Explorer and The Jared Box Project

We just found out that Tex the Explorer and The Jared Box Project was a 2024 Next Generation Indie Book Awards Finalist! Eyen and I are so proud of this book and so happy that we can support the phenomenal work done by The Jared Box Project.

This is a fantastic organization and a great way for children to get involved in an authentic community service project. For more information visit The Jared Box Project.

2023 Mom’s Choice Awards® Silver Recipient, 2023 indieBRAG® Medallion Winner, 2023 Royal Dragonfly Book Awards Winner, 2023 Chanticleer International Book Awards Semi-Finalist, 2023 Story Monsters Approved®, 2024 Book Excellence Award Finalist, 2024 Eric Hoffer Award Nominated, 2024 Purple Dragonfly Book Awards Winner

A New Year

I have decided to start the new year with an adaption of my favorite story. Many times, during my teaching career, I gifted a copy of this adaption, and a starfish necklace, to teachers I worked with, to remind them why we we do what we do.

A young boy was walking on the beach, he paused every so often, to pick up an object and throw it into the ocean. A man was watching the young boy. The boy came closer and the man said, “May I ask what you are doing?”

The young boy replied, “Throwing starfish into the ocean. The tide has washed them up onto the beach and they can’t return to the water by themselves. If they don’t get back into the water, they will die.” 

The man replied, “But there must be hundreds of starfish on this beach. I’m afraid you won’t be able to make much of a difference.”

The boy bent down, picked up another starfish and threw it as far as he could into the ocean. Then he turned and said, “It made a difference to that one!”

Adapted from The Star Thrower, by Loren Eiseley (1907 – 1977)

As I have stated many times, this blog started as a means to promote my books. Then it gradually, and authentically changed to be a means for me to post authentic ideas for teaching. So my blog about authentic teaching and learning is totally authentic! I didn’t plan for it to happen, it just did. And because I followed my interests and didn’t remain constrained by the original purpose of this blog, I have continued to grow as an educator, even in retirement.

Not only have I continued to grow as an educator, but I have been able to continue to make a difference in my own little way. Anyone who teaches, understands that we all want to make a difference, in our own little way. I know my blog does that. I get the biggest thrill to see all the different countries that people are from who read my blog. Wow, what a head trip!

Also, writing my books has allowed me to continue to make a difference. All of my books, children’s and adult, are written to educate. And, of course, being asked to write a book about The Jared Box Project – what an honor. Eyen, Tex, and I feel truly privileged that we were able to help spread the word about this amazing project.

So, I begin 2024 by thanking you for allowing me to indulge in my passions, and feel that I am continuing in my own little authentic way to make a small difference in the world.

As educators, it is easy to become overwhelmed with what we are tasked to accomplish.  So, remember the starfish story, try to make a difference, one starfish at a time…

A Most Wonderful Time of Year – Maybe

“Giving Back.” This has always been my “theme” for December, and a very authentic one at that. I have shared ideas for giving to others throughout my blog. Most can be found under “Social Awareness and Responsibility Skills.”

For so many, hmmmm, maybe most of us, the holidays is not a Hallmark Holiday Special. (Not knocking them, I love them!) There is definitely a “set up” for most people. The holidays never turn out as you want, or expect them to.

I have always found that giving to others is the highlight of my holiday season. For those who have so much, it is important to give back. And for those who have less, but can still give, it really takes the sting out of the disappointments that might occur.

I hope your holiday season is going well, wherever and whatever you are celebrating! You are making my holiday season brighter by just reading my blog!